Feeld hookups: A repeatable system
FROM a male perspective:
I arrange Feeld hookups almost every Sunday.
Feeld is the no 1 app for hookups followed by Tinder, and Sunday is the day people are usually the most careless + have time.
I’ve written an entire blueprint on this, but I’ll break down the juice below.
Key Takeaways
You have to know the fundamentals of how to turn matches in to dates, leverage the S.E.M.C system
Signal trust, playfulness and learn how to seduce with words [sexual storytelling]
Know the in’s and out’s of sending/recieving nudes on Feeld
How to master feeld hookups
01. The Algorithm
To be truly successful on Feeld, the first step is to attract the right type of people by helping the algorithm work to your benefit.
Know your desires and add stuff as FWB [friends with benefits] to your bio to be clear about what you are after.
The app attract people with very spread kinks but AI & machine learning does it’s best to help filter out the people who might be looking for the same thing [at least if you live in a big city w a lot of active users].
02. interaction principles
The most crucial part most people fail at is how to build tension in the chat, especially guys. The biggest problem is that men and women get turned on by different things. Men are more visual and straight to the point, while women needs more build-up.
So in order to turn a match into a hookup you have to interact in a way that builds tension. You want to maintain a lighthearted approach throughout but still be seductive.
03. Craft a personalized opener
The opener lays the foundation for the “foreplay”, so avoid generic stuff. If you have a rich profile you go straight into asking questions that have some heat to them, such as:
”How often are you planning on making out this summer [insert name]?”
Questions will get her mind in the right place without being pushy. The story starts with her.
04. Catch momentum
Now, when she responds she is thinking about making out. And she is picturing doing it with you. Matching the level in her response, you’ll slowly lead the convo into more details revolving around the two of you.
You want to reach a point where the both of you are fully engaged in the convo. I have added full convos in my book Effortless Attraction if you feel insecure and want to truly master this type of sexual chatting [aka sexting].
05. Ask her to come over
Now, since it’s Sunday and you know she’s been on her phone for the last 15 minutes talking dirty to you, chances are she doesn’t have any grand plans for today. On top of that, she might be a little hungover and horny.
Tell her you are going to take a bath and she’s welcome to join if she wants. Make sure your texts are playful and casual, you can play with words or “exteeend” words if you wish [I don’t recommend using emojis].
If you have nailed everything up until this point, you most likely will get a yes. And that’s how I use Feeld for hookups repeatedly on most Sundays.
