Feeld Conversation: a real example
high risk / high reward type of opener
In Effortless Attraction, I talk a lot about timing your messages. You want your match to read them in a context where they can get activated / engaged. If your focus on Feeld is hookups, then Sundays are by far the best day.
This is the day where you can get people straight to your bed, without having to meet up for a date. I’ll show you exactly how I did this last Sunday below.
A feeld convo
So I have a few go-to openers when messaging on Feeld, and to build a strong emotional connection, which can be necessary for some women, it’s important to get personal. However, this isn’t always required and you can of course opt for a high-risk high-reward opener like the one I’m about to share.
So this last sunday I was hung over, in my bed, a little horny and I really wanted to hookup with someone. At the same time, I didn’t feel like investing overly into a convo [which I often do] and started the convo with:
M: How hung over are you today Julia on a scale 1-10
J: 2, but I’m drinking beer rn so give it a couple of hours. You?
M: haha perfect
I’m a solid 7 for sure
Been eating rolls and masturbating all day
haha
But i’m a take a bath now and sharpen up
J: Sharpen up marcus
Have you masturbated already and not saved any rolls for me
M: No need to save
insatiable hunger and lust today it seems
will probably catch at least one more before you’ve finished your next beer
will fantisize about you I promise
J: hahah
On my way home now
can I join the bath?
M: Of course
[My address]
J: Keep it warm
there in 25 mins
I left the door open and entered the bath, when she arrived she took off her clothes and walked straight into my bathroom naked. She introduced herself naked to me which was a bit surreal tbh but incredibly sexy. We spent around an hour in the tub, making out and touching each other slowly and at a relaxed pace. We then moved into my bedroom.
This is a perfect example of how casual you can be on the app. You can absolutely keep it simple. Now this is the type of convo for hookups, and these ones don’t always go this smoothly. If you want to actually build attraction from the ground up, check out Effortless Attraction. Learning those systems & principles changed my dating game radically.
