How does feeld work?
SENSUAL & SPICY ONLINE DATING
Feeld is the spiciest of the dating apps. We are going to break down everything you need to know to get started on the app.
I’m a long-time user of primarily Hinge and Feeld and have been on close to 100 dates, so I feel confident in answering your question
Who is the app for
Feeld was created for people who are curious about exploring new things in the bed. This might be things as teaming up with a couple, (it’s known as the “threesome app”), but it can also be other kinks such as BDSM or really straight-up sensual monogamy stuff (it doesn’t have to be those “special” kinks).
how it works
Depending on what you put in your profile, the Feeld algorithm is going to try to pair you up with like-minded. It’s very similar to Tinder in the sense that you swipe yes or no, and if both swipe yes you can chat.
Once you have matched, you can send text messages both also timed videos or photos (sort of like Snapchat), to your matches. Since the app is very sex-focused, it’s a good idea to learn how to “talk the talk”, and avoid generic convos like “weather-talk”.
It’s a good idea to think through what you are after on the app and be specific about your desires and clear about these when talking to people. Some people are after very specific things, and you don’t want to waste their time by being unaware of your own kinks.
Setting up the app for the first time
It’s location-based just like Tinder, but it does let you change your location to the most popular cities (due to a lower amount of active users compared to Tinder), such as London, Barcelona, New York, etc.
Step-by-step to get started
01. Define Your Preferences
Before diving into Feeld, take a moment to reflect on your aspirations. Are you seeking connections with couples, singles, or both? Do you desire casual encounters or meaningful relationships? Are you inclined towards consensual non-monogamy or exclusivity? Understanding your wants and needs is pivotal in steering your journey towards fulfilling connections.
02. Craft an Irresistible Profile
Your Feeld profile serves as your digital persona; make it captivating. Authenticity and openness are paramount in fostering genuine connections, whether they're fleeting or enduring. Embrace specificity by detailing your desires and interests. Feeld accommodates a spectrum of preferences, from the adventurous to the conventional. Remember, an incomplete profile is a missed opportunity.
When it comes to photos, authenticity reigns supreme. You needn't resort to professional shots; a genuine selfie can be more appealing. For the shy ones, utilize features like Private Photos and Incognito Mode with a Majestic membership. Putting in that extra effort is well worth it because it strongest leverage to get more matches.
03. Embrace Effective Communication
Effective communication is the cornerstone of successful interactions on Feeld. Initiate conversations gracefully, respecting boundaries and pacing. Avoid clichéd icebreakers like unsolicited explicit photos; instead, engage in meaningful dialogue. Recognize that consent is non-negotiable, both on the app and in real-life encounters.
04. Cultivate Meaningful Connections
When you encounter someone intriguing, seize the opportunity to delve deeper into them. What sparked your interest in their profile? What qualities drew them to yours? Move beyond small talk, exploring shared interests and desires. Remember, there's no rush; savor each stage of connection-building.
Redefine Success
Success on Feeld transcends mere metrics. Instead of fixating on the number of connections or dates, prioritize meaningful experiences. Reflect on what truly brings you pleasure and fulfillment. By redefining success and embracing the journey, you'll unlock the full potential of dating on Feeld.
In conclusion, mastering the art of dating on Feeld requires introspection, authenticity, and effective communication. By embodying these principles, you'll embark on a transformative journey filled with enriching connections and unforgettable experiences.
